Is Your Child Thriving, or Just Coping?

Jeanine Cambra • August 26, 2025

A gentle guide for recognizing signs your child may need a new school


You know your child better than anyone.  You know the sparkle in their eyes when they’re truly engaged, and you know when that light starts to dim.


Maybe your child used to be curious, energetic, full of ideas.  Now mornings are a battle.  They come home tired, irritable, or quiet.  You ask how school was, and the answer is “fine” . . . every time.  But it doesn’t feel fine.


You’re not overreacting.  You’re noticing something real, and asking this question: “
Is my child thriving, or just coping?” is the beginning of something better.


When Kids Aren't Thriving

Children who are thriving feel safe, seen, and curious. 

They ask questions. 

They get lost in projects. 

They feel proud of what they accomplish, not just when they "get it right."


But when the environment doesn’t meet their needs, emotionally, socially, or academically, kids start to pull back.  School becomes something to endure.  They become resistant.  Learning turns into a chore.


Maybe you've noticed your child saying they're bored or that they hate school.  Maybe they're more anxious about homework or quieter than usual.  Maybe they're not excited anymore.


These aren't signs of laziness.  They're signals that something's out of alignment.


A Different Approach

At Sandwich Montessori School, we offer something different.


Our classrooms are calm, purposeful spaces where children move freely, choose meaningful work, and grow at their own pace.  We guide instead of lecture.  We teach outdoors as often as indoors . . . and we trust that when children feel safe, they do incredible things.


We also know families need flexibility.  That’s why we offer both full-time enrollment and hybrid options for homeschooling families.  Whether your child joins us two days a week for curriculum-supported learning, attends one of our workshops, or becomes part of our full-day program, they’ll be part of a thoughtful, joyful community.


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